Helicopter parents, and other well-intentioned things that damage our children.
Parenting is - even at its least complicated - a really tough job. And while we celebrate the unique individuality of each child, that very uniqueness does mean that there is no guide book for parenting - what works for one can be disastrous for another (even when the apparent circumstances seem identical). In addition to there being no ‘one-size-fits-all’ set of rules for parenting, we each take into our parenting roles all sorts of learned behaviours that are informed by our own childhood experiences, traumas, and psychologies. On top of that still is the fact that our parenting is only one voice in a situational chorus of influences from peers, society at large, and social media. Many of these voices are more influential and exciting than the humdrum parenting voice – they inform the exciting while our voice informs the necessary. There are all sorts of traps that well-intentioned parents can fall into – living vicariously through our childr...